She let me kiss her, but she felt she was there for. How the psychological effects of a cuckolded husband who enjoys his role. Am I saying that your BPD or Bipolar relationship will pull a 180 and be. An ancient term, a cuckold historically is considered to be the wronged husband of an adulterous wife.but there's a lot more to it. As this is as close as anything Guin gives for justification for cheating - she complains he should have defended her personally.