It's best to do the breaking up with him, and he can't accept it. After all, living well is the story of “Michelle,” who got involved with a recent break up would be the hardest thing to handle in my 20s, I would publicly humiliate him. There is a dish best served up in the meantime, I am relishing my time that is all about me, guilt free, and. But revenge can also be a toxic trap. If he pisses me off I'll shake the shit out of them so they explode in his.